Thoughts!

Today I have many thoughts and I don't know how to really put them all down into words! Things have been changing in my home lately. John is doing great in college and I am trying to lose weight and be healthy and our kids are growing up. My marriage is taking on a new course with John and I both at different points in our lives. I guess that is what will keep the element of surprise to our marriage though. I think its OK to change and go into a different direction that what a person once thought;I also think its equally important to be supportive of those changes.



I know someone who is in prison who told me something the other day that I have been repeating in my head over and over and that is real love is self-sacrificing and that if he would have known that in his life, things would be different. I have been thinking about that and how I act in my relationship with my husband. Sometimes it is all about me. I would like to change that, and if I would make it about him I know in return he would make it about me and what an awesome marriage we could have. Right now we are serving ourselves. We live in the "its all about me" world and you know, its not all about me.. Its about no greater love than one man could give to lay his life down for his friend. That is what that saying is about. Self-sacrificing love!

Just my thoughts of the day!